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Old 10-28-2009, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Ceoli View Post
My choices are going to be based on those things and not on worst case scenarios.

I think we are totally mis-communicating, Ceoli.
My point is - relationships are not only based on "how much love" there is. That love could be equal among limitless people. Once you bring in external commitments, obligations, and responsibilities, relationships will naturally become prioritized based on the levels of integration. A casual, tertiary, secondary, FWB or anything else who contributes solely on an emotional level is not going to have the same priority or impact of someone who contributes across a broader spectrum.

Some relationships will be "more important" in the big picture because they are more involved on other levels.

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