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Old 10-28-2009, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Ceoli View Post

I think it comes down to being aware within all the relationships, not trying to protect certain dynamics over others.

For me it comes down to how much you have invested in each relationship. In my opinion, Redpepper has an emotional investment in me. She has an emotional, parental, financial and legal investment with her husband. There is more at stake in that relationship and therefore should be the area where priority is placed.

I'm not thinking of your friends relationship specifically however if the woman who he bought the house with went off the deep end she would have the capacity to affect his life across a broader spectrum than a person with a solely emotional entanglement. Therefore it is in his best interest to foster that relationship with greater emphasis.
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