WOW!! Congratulations, Carma!! What a huge step! And the world didn't end! So great to hear.
When you're up for it, I'd bet we're all dying for a more detailed blow by blow account of how the conversation went. We've had sooooo long to follow this story, I'm just so curious as to what you both said to each other, how you got the conversation started, whoch things were put out there and which things remained discreet, that sorta thing.
And it's wonderful to see that, as is so often the case, the reality of her turned out to be much less threatening than the idea of her.
Great also to see that, at the *very* least, Sun's been mostly truthful to you... maybe now that he knows you're not afraid to take an active role in things that affect you, he'll shape up a little bit!