open, honest, true to self... hi there
Where to begin...
I am married (almost 14 yrs now), straight, male, and father of two.
I created this account to be my voice in exploring the polyamory community further. So do not take my references to "I" and "me" to mean that my wife is not onboard. It's actually quite the opposite.
My wife is truly bi and wants to bring another woman into our relationship to further experience that side of herself. I am open to this, but I have read enough to know to move very slowly. We have had one poly quad relationship prior to this and experimented with swinging (enough to know that sex without commitment or emotion is not fulfilling for either of us).
I have been a lurker on this site for some time and finally feel comfortable, confident enough to offer up my limited experience and reach out to other caring, friendly people to aid my wife and I on this journey.