Thank you so much nycindie! Part of why I came here was that I was hoping it was a place I could express myself in regards to my loss and subsequently trying to conceive later. I am a member of some other forums that deal specifically with those sorts of things, but they are definitely not poly oriented, in fact, I've not mentioned that I have a poly relationship at all on any of those forums (didn't think it was the place to do so).
I also appreciate the weight loss link. Awesome!
By the way, I love your responses on threads. I appreciate your no nonsense method of direct communication. That's something I'm working on. I am an honest and realistic person, but I tend to ramble. I have a lot of admiration for good communicators.