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Old 09-21-2011, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by NeonKaos View Post
when they have such a good thing going with each other.
Haha Neon, love your sarcasm!

Yes, old patterns come creeping right back, don't they? It's almost like I subconsciously re-created the exact same situation I was in with my first husband, all over again! He was/is a pathological liar, very, very sick and probably one of the few bona fide sociopaths I have ever known in my life (they only make up 4% of the population, according to a book I read recently). My psychologist met him once (we were already divorced; he came for one of our kids who was getting some counseling) and the doctor's advice to me regarding him after the session? "Never look evil in the eye."

Anyway, here I am, being lied to again, freaking out. You're right, I have to stop asking why and just deal with this like a big girl. I am trying to believe you guys are all giving me "tough love"! Although I must admit sometimes it feels like some have contempt. I'm not perfect, I'm making lots of mistakes, but I'm not giving up. Please don't give up on me!
Formerly married to Sundance
Boyfriend -- Butch Cassidy
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