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Old 09-21-2011, 09:06 PM
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Putting relationships on hold is not as easy as it sounds, but it sounds to me like her husband is finally getting the chance to explore his bisexual nature and is intimidated by the freedom to do so freely; maybe he isn't as ready to be openly bisexual as you OR maybe there was something about the experience that scared him. It could be that he is afraid he will like it too much and not need you anymore. Either way, it sounds like your guy needs to do some soul searching. That doesn't give him the right to end your relationship or renegg on your agreement. You could scale back the amount of time you spend with her or negotiate some boundaries for scaling back and time frames for moving forward (so he has x number of days, weeks, months to make progress on his issues). Good luck!
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