Originally Posted by Penny29
I caught my boyfriend surfing on various dating sites
and he had to admit that he was looking for other girls. But he explained to me that he would prefer an open relationship and didn't dare to talk with me about that.
I think you deserve much better treatment from him than you appear to be getting. What does it mean to you to have a "boyfriend"? Isn't a boyfriend someone special? How special is he treating you as a "girlfriend" when he won't open up enough with you to be willing to discuss so important a matter as this?--who he's seeing or sleeping with? I'd let him know that you feel that you deserve better treatment in this respect than you're getting. Also, do look at whatever self-esteem issues you've got which might lead to your cow-towing to such behaviour on his part.