Originally Posted by Minxxa
I do know that one need is more time (quality time where we are paying attention to each other, not just existing in the same house in separate rooms involved in our own stuff!) I need to figure out how to do that, though, and then make it happen.
Not today, though. Today I'm going to yoga and then going to my good friend's house for a nice girl-bonding dinner.
I struggle with this also because I also need time for "my stuff", which usually falls when he is home. Sometimes, I just have to say, "lets go for a drive" (he loves to do that anyway) and he has done the same, it helps. I did have to spell it out (including no texting, e-mailing , etc - even if he usually forgets that part) and both of us playing on the computer in the same room doesn't count, neither does sitting at opposite ends of the room watching tv.