Originally Posted by kp98cru
yes you understand correctly now. sorry for the confusion.
I have interacted with her twice. So while there is no 'friendship' or 'relationship' with her, I know he is truthful that she knows... and i have nothing but respect for her.
maybe therein lies my trepidation. I want to be 100% confident that what we do is the best thing for all 3 of us, not just me. Am I too worried about her feelings/concerns and not mine?
I'm sort of a newbie, but I really applaud your thoughts regarding his wife. Like nycindie said, you would have to have tome kind of relationship/understanding with her if you were to live in the same house as her. I think your concern is honorable and well-founded, personally.