It sounds like they are not able to communicate very well if they are telling each other they think each other is one thing or another. Very shabby way of communicating. They might want to find some different ways.
The issue is about you though and really you just have to stay out of it I think. Its not your business. It looks like there might be a vee happening in the future. Not unusal really, but if I were you I would prepare for being asked to quit along with them as that is likely what will come up if they split.
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