Two quotes really spoke to me today:
"The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them." - Hemingway
"Until we have seen someone's darkness, we don't really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone's darkness, we don't really know what love is." - Marianne Williamson
I would add to this, that one of life's most healing beautiful experiences is when you have been loved by someone so much that they Love All of You, Light, Darkness & everything in between...