Originally Posted by nycindie
Yes, it still seems that the OP doesn't quite understand what poly is about, but I wonder if that is because her bf is using the label polyamory while actually just playing at polyfuckery.
This is what I suspect, yes. Tinyblu, I think your boyfriend is explaining poly wrong to you. It doesn't mean what he says it means. It doesn't mean that he gets to cheat on you and then not even bother to go to the trouble of hiding it.
(Disclaimer: there's nothing wrong with polyfuckery if that's what everyone involved is into!)