Originally Posted by AuroraWD
This really helped me today
Thanks for posting it!
"Some people find the following analogy useful: "Apple pie is my favourite dessert. I am absolutely crazy about apple pie. I mean that I think that I'd GO crazy if I could never eat apple pie again. But now and then, I like to eat chocolate ice-cream. You know what I mean?" [Some - those into 3somes - take the analogy even further: "You know what would be heaven? Hot apple pie with a scoop of chocolate ice-cream on top!!!"]
You're welcome! But now I'm intrigued. HOW did it "really help"? To get things in perspective, to understand your partner's leanings towards poly... or tactically
("Hey, Guys, let's go really wild for dessert!")?