Originally Posted by TheMountainBoy
Partly i was interested to see if anyone would respond to get an idea if anyone had had a similar situation and maybe they could offer suggestions.
I was given teh ultimatum of "If i suggest that its either him or me, she will choose him. If he suggests she choose me or him she will choose me"
Like i said before - i'm between a rock and a hard place
Yep-been there done that. Feel free to peruse our posts.
And yes I gave that same basic ultimatum-but I do with all my friends and lovers and always have. Only I get to choose who I love and who I befriend, but I respect any who feel they must leave on account of my choices and dont' hold grudges over it.