Ok so your against a mulligan ....how about letting Sun hit off the ladies Tee's and 5 strokes . ... in the spirit of compassion and compromise?
You said the kind of fairness that really matters is the kind that starts with compassion. How do you plug that into this situation ....on all sides. And that's hard to reconcile..... with life is not fair ringing in the back ground.
The article you mentioned seemed to confuse acts done for or with someone with the expectation of a payout later down the road and ....fairness.
Butch had an affair with a married woman.....his eyes.... wide open.
Barbie ....(who has a rich bf)(what type of relationship they have is????) knew she was entering a situation that had the potential of getting messy.
I don't see anyone anyone with completely clean hands....