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Old 09-18-2011, 12:47 PM
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Is there a chance that you've just completely thrown him for a loop, and he may be more open to discussing it after having some time to think about it? It is a very difficult conversation to have - I brought it up with my husband quite gently, and we discussed it for a couple of months before he finally gave the go-ahead (theoretical of course - it's 2.5 years later and not a lot has happened to speak of!). Even after he'd agreed I still wasn't sure he was on board, until I kissed a friend of ours, some other friends found out, and I found him justifying our lifestyle choice to them and why it made sense - it was a lovely moment and I appreciate him so much for being so understanding!
This is sweet! Thanks for sharing it.
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