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Old 09-18-2011, 07:35 AM
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hi RD

i learnt a lot through sherry argov' book (the only one she wrote, i think) where the motto is:
"the high-quality woman knows what she wants and she acts in order to obtain it"; this, beside many other very good (in humouristic ways) imputs, drove me to a different way/kind of communication, for instance something like:
"the high-quality woman doesn't EXPLAIN why she's having problems in relating to a circumstance which involves her partner; she doesn't relete at all", sometimes there are some kind of silences which are far powerful than thousands of complaints about the "You" standying in front of "Her" (for the "you" standying there already knows).

thanks for sharing, i'm going to read links you put here
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