Well, we've joined OKCupid and are now 'hooked up' with locals in the area. There is a dinner once a month I'm going to head to. If nothing else I'd love folks to talk to. I'd love to explore the ins and outs of the lifestyle along with wiser folks giving me advise on how best to avoid conflict and keep the loving life from being overwhelming.
*nervous* I've met some nice folks already and they're giving me information. I just hope we either find what we're looking for or make some great friends.