Originally Posted by Fidelia
That's when I would have been out the door. Not because of any sexual contact, but because of the DECEIT and DISLOYALTY involved.
Also: because she got away with it the first time, you can expect it to happen again. Not necessarily the sexual infidelity, but the deceit and disloyalty. IMO, it's not a question of whether, it's a question of when. So prepare yourself.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings. Really, I am. And if you choose not to accept this hard truth, I won't argue the point. And I truly hope your case is the exception to the rule. But I've seen it happen too many times, to myself and many others.
I earnestly wish you the very best. Good luck to you and yours.
No disrespect intended (or taken) BUT,
This is a common attitude-and so hurtful to those of us who HAVE learned out lesson.
It's true-level of probability says she will be deceitful and disloyal again.
BUT many a person has accomplished the impossible and proven that the improbable can happen.