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Old 10-27-2009, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Fidelia View Post
That's when I would have been out the door. Not because of any sexual contact, but because of the DECEIT and DISLOYALTY involved.

Also: because she got away with it the first time, you can expect it to happen again. Not necessarily the sexual infidelity, but the deceit and disloyalty. IMO, it's not a question of whether, it's a question of when. So prepare yourself.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings. Really, I am. And if you choose not to accept this hard truth, I won't argue the point. And I truly hope your case is the exception to the rule. But I've seen it happen too many times, to myself and many others.

I earnestly wish you the very best. Good luck to you and yours.
Fidelia-
No disrespect intended (or taken) BUT,
This is a common attitude-and so hurtful to those of us who HAVE learned out lesson.

It's true-level of probability says she will be deceitful and disloyal again.

BUT many a person has accomplished the impossible and proven that the improbable can happen.
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