I see that this thread has been moved to New to Polyamory and I'm wondering why. Redpepper suggested it might be better in the Life Stories and Blogs section, so I'm surprised to see it here, especially since I'm not new to poly (been actively practicing it for 16 years).
I'm trying to understand the structure here and struggling, so help on that subject is appreciated!
"But you've got to be tough when consumed by desire
'Cause it's not enough just to stand outside the fire
Life is not tried, it is merely survived
When you're standing outside the fire"
Garth Brooks and Jenny Yates