I think the OP is venting. Which,..is what forums tend to attract. She might not actually feel it is hell. Who really knows yet ? Since its one of very few posts we have information on, its a bit premature to tell her to dump and run.
OP don`t dump and run.......from us
A bit of a FYI about this place, is that we have a very good blog section. In there, if you blog you will receive support, not criticism. You can vent and let things out.
Questions, theories, tough love, hugs, and a mixture of comments will be generated in the other topics on this forum.