Oh, I know hun! I guess I should have been more specific in saying that I meant that in a general sense, and not just her in particular!
Good parents can rear bad kids, bad parents can rear good kids, and every variation inbetween!
All I was saying was that while our parents can influence our lives, they aren't usually the only influence that shapes who we become.
I have a good friend that was so neglected and abused by her mother, that other people shaping her personality wasn't really even possible. It has been a challenge in helping her past all the issues that her mother left her with.
I truely hope I didn't upset you, hun! That wasn't my intention at all!