Originally Posted by polycouple
I would think five years would be enough to heal from that, though I have never experienced that kind of betrayal so what do I know....
I would bet a lot of buttons, that there are two old sayings, that play in the back of her head. Things we are all taught.
' If he`ll do it with you, he`ll do it to you.'
' Once a cheater, always a cheater. '
For that reason, she could possibly always be on guard.