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Old 09-14-2011, 02:56 PM
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Have you looked into whether there are medical/hormonal causes for your low libido?
It is entirely possible that hormonal and medical conditions affect my libido. I have Polycystic Ovaries and depression. I take medication for the depression which could also suppress libido.

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Dominance & submission are not the same thing as S&M. You can take part in S&M without being submissive.
With the S&M I believe he wants a submissive and he wants to be Dominant. He also wants to inflict pain.

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You have lots of choices! I don't think poly is be the best thing to jump into when you feel like your back is up against the wall. It will work so much better if it's embraced because you want it.
If it's not the best thing to do then I am not sure what is. If I cannot make him happy then it's either leave or let him find it with someone else. We have tried relationship therapy, I have tried s&m. What else can I do?
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