Originally Posted by polycouple
Very true all a lot of fronts. Thanks once again for the very thoughtful comments!
Just to be clear though, Tom was unfaithful to his ex-wife, not Sarah.
Also, not that this makes a significant difference, but they are not married.
Actually, what am I saying!? He was unfaithful in the first three months of their relationship. He was still married and hadn't told her...though he claimed they were not intimate, but none-the-less that's a HUGE betrayal not to tell you're married. I would think five years would be enough to heal from that, though I have never experienced that kind of betrayal so what do I know....