I don't identify. Why? Well I guess that I have heard so many definitions about what polyamory is and what it is not..... and I know that I fit in there somewhere, but I do not want to tell someone that I am polyamorous and have them forming an idea of how I am that might not be how I am at all. If that makes any sense?
I am also just averse to using labels. I know this sounds kind of weird, but to me labels seem to have some kind of finality to them. I know that they can help one to find like minded individuals. but at the same time I feel like there is no room for growth or change... and I often wonder if by taking on a label we sometimes limit ourselves or close ourselves off to things. I don't know, I might just be talking out of my ass today....