Originally Posted by YGirl
It sounds like RP is worried about the possibility of people thinking that she changed the guardianship designation out of spite and retaliation.
This is more about pointing out that your parents don't have some of the same values and aproach to integrating in the world as you do. Essentially you are saying thet they will not produce the person that you feel is best for the world. "Your way of living is not what I want for my child". There's unintentional judgement in that which would be hard to swallow.