Well, I don't know if you need any advice or support, Polyester, but I am in a relationship with a transwoman, and genderqueer myself. Welcome to the board!
miss pixi and I are both pansexual and poly. I'm not in any other relationships right now (except one long distance one), but miss pixi has a bi boyfriend.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years