My bf badly needed therapy but couldn't afford it. We ended up finding a sliding-scale operation that used student psychologists. He paid what he could afford and went when he was able (some weeks he couldn't scrape up even the small-ish fee, so he just skipped and that was ok), and... it actually *really* helped him! Maybe there's something like that in your area? A support group, as mentioned above, also sounds like a great idea.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.