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Old 09-12-2011, 02:51 AM
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Originally Posted by SourGirl View Post
Originally Posted by polycouple View Post
She did support us spending time together when she had to work, but we were respectful of her boundaries to not be intimate while she was not there (save a few times early on when we broke those boundaries).
Care to explain this part ? You and Tom broke boundaries at some point early on ?

It takes people a long time to regain trust, when boundaries are broke in crucial stages.
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