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Old 09-12-2011, 02:51 AM
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She did support us spending time together when she had to work, but we were respectful of her boundaries to not be intimate while she was not there (save a few times early on when we broke those boundaries).
Care to explain this part ? You and Tom broke boundaries at some point early on ?

It takes people a long time to regain trust, when boundaries are broke in crucial stages.
The history is in this thread: Moving toward equanimity in a triad - What is your experience?
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