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Old 09-12-2011, 12:15 AM
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Of course she was okay with you cleaning for them! Maybe she wants him to find a second wife to be their live-in maid and do all the cleaning.

Originally Posted by precious View Post
I want to tell him that she is lazy and their house is nasty but I dont feel like it is my place to say anything, but if they want me to spend time at their house it will have to be clean . . .
Why wouldn't it be your place to say this if he's looking for someone to move in? You only just started seeing him and don't owe them anything -- other than the truth.

I wouldn't get involved if they expect me to move into a filthy house. Let him come and stay with you.
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