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Old 09-11-2011, 11:18 PM
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Okay, more to go on, thanks...

So, is there anything keeping you from calling her and, first apologizing for hanging up on her, and then telling her everything you stated here: "I feel a distance between us, and I don't like arguing with you. I'm really not even sure what to expect, but I miss the way we connected before you moved away. I'm a little confused about how things are going now, and I miss you. How are you feeling about us?"
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