I don't even
I think I have a problem. I'm in my first poly-ish relationship (We've exchanged like-likes, very adult of us). We spent several weeks together and things were absolutely amazing, but we've been long distance for a week and now things seem to be unraveling nearly as quickly as they came together.
I've been married for over 5 years and it's always been so easy. My wife and I never argue, and sync so well on every level that I've never really had to deal with things not being simple and clean.
Should I just take my licks if I want to be serious about being poly, or am I too spoiled to ever make anything work?
I appreciate any help in advance.