i guess it really depends on the people involved. seems like the situation is not as ideal as it once was. life does have a habit of getting in the way sometimes, and presenting challenges to the things or people we want to do or see.
are you able to set up a date night, day, or something of that nature? have you talked to your love interest about spending more time together, about making more time for one another.
communication and caring are a two way street. keep things as open an honest as you can, and always try to keep in mind the challenges that your love ones face as well.
hope things improve.