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Old 09-10-2011, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Carma View Post
Yeah, we are!

I cried... it was such an awesome relief.

He wants only two options: I quit with Butch, then he quits with her, or we keep going on as we are. He insists that I am over-reacting, that I am making more of his relationship with her than it is.
He'd rather quit her than stop lying to her?? OK, I think somehow he is handling her in a bad way just to get you to break up with Butch... He doesn't need to lie to Barbie. All he has to tell her is that you and he have an open marriage and you are fine with him seeing her. There doesnt need to be any breaking up of anyone.

Good luck with calling B, and dealing with the angry fallout. Keep a frying pan or rolling pin handy.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62), dating... again!
Pixi (poly, F, 40) my darling nesting partner since January 2009
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013
Kahlo (my ex, 46)

Last edited by Magdlyn; 09-11-2011 at 02:16 AM.
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