Magdlyn should find you soon. She's a wealth of knowledge and compassion for the trans folk that come here, and their partners.
Not that the rest of us aren't a compassionate lot, but actual experience makes advice so much more relevant.
I'm a pansexual female, married to and living with Indigo
(straight male), in a relationship with and living with Mr. A (straight, mono male).
One day I might stop "practicing" polyamory and just start living it!
Here Be Dragons
Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Nobody gets a toaster oven for recruiting monos.