Mono and my husband have been told a few times to talk to each other when they want stuff passed on... I think they get it now. It kind of annoyed me at first as I saw it as a way for them to avoid dealing with saying stuff to each other that was hard to say. It hasn't come up in a long time. I think they would talk if they needed to. At the beginning they would go out for coffee and then come back to me all macho and proud of their woman. They would watch me walk around and make comments on how I look and what they think of me.... heh, I liked it
they haven't done that in awhile, hm? Think I'll ask for that some time soon!