Excellent point made by the Blogger Holly Pervocracy, which makes me think of my relationship with Davis: "We value passion over companionate love, and wonder why relationships always seem to go cold."
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.