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Old 09-08-2011, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Kealoha View Post
Hmmm...I don't consider sex as a hobby, more like eating and breathing...necessary.
I want a gourmet sex meal, not a quickie. A 5 star restaurant, not a drive thru at McDonalds. That takes generous amounts of time and preparation, a certain amount of toys (leather, glass, electric and silicone), and oils and lube and rope, maybe some candles, clean sheets, feathers and fur and ice, music or a certain type of movie or book, some lingerie, perhaps a few intoxicants....

This makes it all kinda hobby-like, as opposed to wham bam thank you ma'am.
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