Originally Posted by Kealoha
Hmmm...I don't consider sex as a hobby, more like eating and breathing...necessary.
I want a gourmet sex meal, not a quickie. A 5 star restaurant, not a drive thru at McDonalds. That takes generous amounts of time and preparation, a certain amount of toys (leather, glass, electric and silicone), and oils and lube and rope, maybe some candles, clean sheets, feathers and fur and ice, music or a certain type of movie or book, some lingerie, perhaps a few intoxicants....
This makes it all kinda hobby-like, as opposed to wham bam thank you ma'am.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships