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Old 09-08-2011, 05:13 PM
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It feels like it's been so long since I've posted, and it's actually been less than a week! Ah, perspective.

Davis and I have been very close recently. I think if we were monogamous, I might be having a much harder time with this relationship. I know that his intentions are serious... he's not pushing for it, but I know that some day he hopes for marriage, maybe kids... so, if we were monogamous, I think I'd be freaking out... asking myself, can I really be with just this guy forever, does he really fulfill all my needs?? Is he really "the one"??? But with poly I can relax a little because if there's a need of mine he doesn't fill I can hypothetically get it filled elsewhere, and I could, in theory, have more than one "the one"s at some point.

So, I can just enjoy my time with him and be chill and see where things go.

Thanks, poly!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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