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Old 09-08-2011, 02:06 AM
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Had to add something because I went out but this passage kept popping into my head:
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Originally Posted by Carma View Post
I've been pushing him to truth up and get real with her, and for all 3 of us to meet. He DOES say he's working on it, and I believe him.
What does "working on it" mean, exactly? Either he lies or comes clean; there's no in-between. Either you all meet or you don't; there's no in-between.
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