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Old 09-08-2011, 01:11 AM
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JuliaGay JuliaGay is offline
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Tacoma/Tucson (long story)
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Thanks, nycindie.

The probation idea sounds like a good one. I'll have to think about how I'd want to present that. And what it means to me, so I can communicate it effectively.

I am pissed, although I, too, want to reunite. The bond we developed is quite strong and I believe our connection is worth it. I just want to feel respected and as though I have some emotional safety. I know all relationships are risky, but this one has already proven to be so....

I know probably I'm nuts, but I'm in love even with all that has happened. I want to make it work, if we can. I'm waiting for him to respond to my request (? not really a request since it's a deal breaker, but I'm not sure what other word to use).

"But you've got to be tough when consumed by desire
'Cause it's not enough just to stand outside the fire
Life is not tried, it is merely survived
When you're standing outside the fire"
Garth Brooks and Jenny Yates
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