Well as poly is based on responsibility to others, consideration to others, honest and open communication, integrity (to see more read the threads found under the tags of "lessons" and "foundations) etc. No, cheating is cheating, poly is not cheating and no, i would not involve myself. I would do my best to be honest and keep my integrity, and if all else failed? I would walk away.
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