Originally Posted by River
If Cherry is quite unhappy with your being polyamorous, that certainly adds to the challenges you will have to face together. She may not be able to handle that in the long run, and may herself run when you find yourself involved with another. Meanwhile, just shower her with love and kindness and tenderness and affection, if that's what you're feeling toward her. If she really, really knows she's cared for she may feel secure enough about the two of you to stick with you even if you are poly (or find another some day).
I do everything to make those I love, feel loved. =]
I really would love to hear what other people have been through with a mono, or being a mono with a poly partner. This thread isn't just for me here. =]