Yes, I had the same experience, too. The first time they met, they both knew I was nervous. I made a bee line to get out of the house and they kept on chatting and even closed the door on me. It was funny.
The first time Mr. A was over for dinner, this is what happened: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showp...09&postcount=5
Again, I'm a big fan of the anticlimactic poly meetings!