Hello from the tropics! I'm a straight, 30-year-old female in a closed marriage of 5 years. I'm currently struggling with the notion that I might be poly and trying to figure out how/when to discuss this with my husband. I just breached the subject with my therapist last week and will continue to explore avenues with her. Anyway, just wanted to say hello and thanks to everyone for their thoughtful posts, replies, advice and support. I'm sure I will be coming here a lot in the near future. Aloooooohaaaa!