Just a quick update: I'm still new to polyamory and still trying to figure everything out.
I'm going to try to post on here more often, as I like the forum (and it seems like a great way to avoid doing my graduate work!)
I'm identifying as non-monogamous rather than poly, as it's a more general term and being in love is not particularly important to me.
I like being single, although I'd like to have some type of non-exclusive relationship someday.
I turned 30 recently and am trying to begin a decade of dating the way I've always felt I wanted to date. I guess my view of dating has always been non-traditional, although I didn't realize it until last year.