No married cheaters for me, thank you very much!
Originally Posted by sugarhigh980
. . . but what if you really care for this person and have a very close bond and desire? Is it your responsibility to walk away from this person?
I would think that, because
you care about them, you must
walk away. I would never want to be the reason a close friend lies to his spouse, making me a dirty little secret - ecch! Sexual desire can happen with lots of people, so I'd look for someone else. Your desire for this person will cool; it isn't worth wrecking a monogamous marriage over.
Someone started a similar thread recently. You may find it helpful: Who's responsibility?