Originally Posted by leannahope
I don't really care what we're called, either. just curious what I should refer to myself as on this forum. I guess I'll just stick with calling myself the hinge of a poly Vee.
That will do for short, if you don't mind leaving out your husband's casual relationships.
The hinge of an open poly Vee would suggest that all three of you were open to casual relationships in addition to the Vee
If you wanted to be exact, you are the hinge of a poly Vee, and one your partners is open to other relationships.
Within these forums, which description you use probably depends on what the point is of mentioning the relationship: the context will suggest how much info is relevant.